Dating for fun
I even dated a guy who was already married once and had kids from his previous relationship.
But what I found was something that I really wasn't expecting.
This summer is will be one year that I have been single.
I started dating on and off back in December, but found it to be tedious, exhausting, challenging and for a lack of better words, completely emotionally brutal.
And there's some features like chitchat and forums where you can actively discuss all kinds of topics or nothing at all. We make it easy for you to find each other and make contact.
Unlike k-pop, if you look at Japanese media and then travel to Japan you will be able to find girls that look and act almost EXACTLY like they do on TV.
The thing is, no one really has any idea how dating really "works." I have spent the past year of my life doing my best to decode and understand the ins and outs of dating. How many dates before having "the conversation" about going exclusive or continuing to date other people?
Can I text him after the first date or do I have to wait for him to text me? And so I would turn to my friends for advice -- to call or not to call, to share my feelings or to play it cool, etc.
It's a whole hell of a lot cheaper for me to go down to the bar and get my fun there. I guess I'm just looking for someone who can explain to me what the hell was going on here.
She certainly didn't seem ok with me seeing other girls, and I'm not terribly sad she's gone, but I am absolutely confused at what she thinks was going on. I just don't think dating for fun works, sooner or later someone gets attached.